Ladies please help..I am faced with the toughest decision I will ever have to make?

try for two. there are way too many different problems that could happen to your children chances are that two of them might be a miscarriage anyways cause your so small so take those out while you have a good chance to. in this economy and what your situation sounds like seems like you can't raise four kids anyways its a big step to move into and four at once can be overwhelming take it slowly reduce to two.